However, if referring to the meaning of the word emancipation, What is emancipation? According to major Indonesian Dictionary Emancipation is a term used to describe a number of efforts to gain political rights and equality, often for the group not given specific rights, or more generally in the discussion of such problems. Is it true that our society already understand about the core spirit of emancipation? The main mission of emancipation that is actually not to make most women become prey to perpetrators as part of the equality they mean. Then how attitudes and responses of men who seemed to get a challenge to compete with women. What is their reaction?
In fact, there are many men when dealing with women in a situation, they encourage women to exercise their right to emancipation (equality) if you want to get the same treatment (seating on public transport, for example). Which in the end, rather than be treated well, otherwise so impressed discredit and harass, because eventually the women who had been privileged. On behalf of the emancipation of women is precisely the target of abuse of people here who think women should not demand the same treatment if in fact they were not able to do the same.
Many of the men who thought it strange demands of these women are not possible in any case, because women have many weaknesses and disabilities. In the eyes of some men, these claims are considered far-fetched and exaggerated. There is an impression, even when women say their role is based on the name of emancipation, the treatment they receive precisely the attitude cynical and dismissive. Because as though women are just trying to hide behind the slogan of emancipation to have a lot better facility on the basis of that weakness. So what's wrong with all this?
It seems we've all been wrong to define the meaning of emancipation in the mean Ibu Kita Kartini, there appears to be a false doctrine in the know about what the meaning of emancipation. Especially for most men. That in the end they bit forced to accept the doctrine even though it is in practice somewhat forced. Among the many misunderstandings translation of the meaning of this emancipation of women makes even the most disadvantaged.
Women alone can not determine the limits of what should be the scope of their territories when faced with physical strength, power, politics and crime. Women often become baits and soft targets are sacrificed to achieve the goal of a handful of people. Of the many issues related to women, most of them women only sampled / candidate helpless victim, and others became criminals who want to show the strength / their cruelty.
In the name of emancipation, let us compute the following points along this side which women should be empowered as God's most beautiful creatures, which shows the point where their role is no different from inanimate objects.
1. Let us count how many migrant workers who have been sent abroad to seek employment on economic grounds that they are forced to leave their families for food, in some cases they receive unfair treatment even barbaric acts of the employer. and the government only counts the income on state revenue from the sweat of them and they were given the title of the kartini exchange? if such is worth mentioning emancipation?
2. Let us count how many women workers are employed in the factory-standard factory with low wages and did not pay attention to safety standards that put the interests of women, there are many rights that have been violated and that too also forced them to do because of economic reasons. Does it deserve to be called emancipation?
3. Let us count how many informal sector workers who roam the sidewalks and peddle his wares become hawkers, informal employment even this forced them to do to meet the economic needs of the family. What actually is a form of emancipation?
4. Let us count how many pretty young women are forced into commercial sex workers that their job is to serve men johns, because they do not have the skills and expertise, and so once again for economic reasons, this is what emancipation?
5. Let us count how many young women who worked in an office and high-rise buildings, leaving early to go home tonight and amid the journey they get humiliating mistreatment by rogue elements in the various modes of public transportation, once again this is done in the name of economic demands. Does this mean emancipation fighters?
6. Let us count how many women become become centers of exploitation of the world of entertainment and entertainment, they let him into the limelight and the center of sexual crimes because beauty can be used for the economic interests of a few, once again it is because the economic incentives in exchange for lucrative. Is this what is meant emancipation?
7. Let us count how many percent the employment sector that should be filled many women like; education, health, arts, crafts and so forth, but inside they also still have to compete with the men, whose also dominate this field. What is this so-called emancipation?
8. Let us count how many women are forced to live a man's job as a driver, for example, construction workers, porters, sportsmen, soldiers, as well as criminal and so on. What is needed to support the spirit of emancipation?
9. Let us count how many women working in the sector of local and central government, which is actually the time they should be more widely used to educate children in the home, but was blocked state because of busy at the office who does not know his spare time. Ends, the affairs of children and families left to the household assistant whose knowledge is not how (standard JSS).
10. Let us count how many women died in their work, died as a result of street violence, domestic violence, sexual violence, and so on, whether it was caused by intentional or unintentional result they have lost their lives, and the state did not see merit that they donate and considered an accident.
11. Let's count, how many women who were the object of research and development targeted household and beauty products, exploiting the potential of the spending appetite and preening women to have thousands of fold benefit.
12. In the name of emancipation, let us count how many of our children who are victims of sexual violence, victims of domestic violence due to her parents separated, victims of murder, an easy target for a variety of crimes where it all started from a lack of attention parents busy working and they are more interested in careers than domestic unity and the safety of their children. What is the purpose of emancipation?
And there are many more, which is where the end of all of this finally is the education of children so neglected and have you counted how many women due to the loss of their homes and forced to leave their children at a later date in the future? It is our children who are victims of the greatest bear the brunt of all this, that is where they grow into individuals who do not respect their parents, including other people, because as a child he was brought up by people who are paid not by the parents themselves who provide value- moral values sincerity. Children with parenting curb and restrict their movement will generate growth generation is rigid and hard to face life, they are souls strings attached.
The big question is? where the value of the glory of women within the scope of the emancipation of women in 12 points above? if you could see it with the eyes of the heart are clear, even of women are no different than the slaves? emancipation in a new form of human slavery which human beings themselves do not realize they are being exploited, their rights in stocks and handcuffed by Human Rights who regard them as heroes of foreign exchange to the ruler when in fact they are nothing more than slaves by label modern emancipation. You realize that?
Do all the above points do you call the spirit of gender equality? Do you not see the magnitude of the resulting bad side, if you do not feel that most of the women are only used as a dairy ruler to move the wheels of the economy in various sectors. Women in this country is only a tool to flood the workforce, so investors want to enter and fees / wages can be suppressed. Not in order to prosper, but to take advantage of the negative side of emancipation in which women in this country willing and able to be used as cheap labor.
So then what happened? Our young generation is destroyed, both morally and mentally. Why? because the pattern of students at the wrong house (raised by household assistant or even by social media and gadgets), and habits what do parents someday also be passed on to their children and so on, until completely ruined our generation in the future. As that happens around us these days, there are parents hit the teacher, there are children gang up on school officials, there are teachers fighting with wari students and so on. All the actors mutual fisticuffs on behalf of their respective interests increasingly dominate.
Compare if women do not spend lots of time outside the home, work at home (small and medium enterprises) or working in a particular field is appropriate fields of work that does require a lot of expertise a woman's hand, for example in hospitals, clinics, pharmacies, schools, training and arts and cultural center, surely their souls will not be interrupted because it will not be the target of violence. They will also remain a woman who can make a contribution to the state, but also did not rule out his role as an educator in the home. However women are creatures of God's most beautiful and they were created not just to be relieving thirst lust lovers of sex, they have a role to build intelligent generation in the future.
If we want to talk about gender equality, women should be able to determine the field of what it should be work and with whom he was supposed to face and not by men mighty in power in the areas that should be more involved in women. Women should be able to work a maximum field of the most conducive for all them, not in the field that was involved mostly male muscular and not have to compete with most of the men on the battlefield, because if so, we will find inequality. Because after the physical condition of men are different from women, will never be the same until whenever. Even The Lord created man to make a difference very clearly between men and women, both in function and benefit, should a man can feel that the purpose of God giving limit the difference is that both can complement each other, not to intermingle as happened today.
Remember, the values of emancipation are all women should go to school and make a choice, but certainly in accordance with interests and talents. All Indonesian women should not work but it certainly should be in accordance with the expertise and skills. All women should Indonesia career but certainly in accordance with the nature that nurture and protect the family and society. There is nothing wrong with the noble values of emancipation which meant the motherland, but our own fault define excessive and go beyond the limits that we all agreed on.
During this time we consider emancipation is that we have to sit together, to fight together with the man, get into the boxing ring and dealing with a variety of opponents of men and women of various types and are forced to win the game until the final round, mercilessly. When in fact not, women still need to be placed in an appropriate place, noble, and honorable, given the ease and comfort so that they can develop appropriate values of emancipation itself. There should be limits to distinguish treatment between men and women in various areas, and in some cases women should be given priority in the best in terms of public service and services.
The worldview of our society which has always demanded equal rights only, since the definition of equality in question is equal participation in terms of mutual cooperation in building a generation of intelligent and resilient in the future. Both men and women have their respective roles and there should be cooperation with good. In social life Women still have to get good treatment, honored and glorified in various facets of life. Women should get preferential treatment and more respectable in any case, because women are God's creatures are special and they are the leaders forming the golden generation in the future, their services are very large for the nation and all the success of a country is in the hands of the women.
Doctrine Islam teaches specifically for each person to be able to glorify women in various ways, Islam respects and exalts the role of women. Indeed Islam appreciates and praises the women to establish sharia laws specifically for them, and explain their rights and duties in Islam. All it aims to preserve and protect the honor and the glory of them. [2] Shaykh Salih al-Fauzan hafidzahullâh said: "Muslim Women has a great position in Islam, so many noble task leaning against him. Therefore, the Prophet always deliver advice specifically for women [3], like a sermon he delivered at Arafat (when the Farewell Pilgrimage). [4] This suggests the necessity of paying attention to women in every time .... [5] among the appreciation of Islam against women is to equate them with the men in the majority of the laws of the sharia, the obligation tawheed to Allah Almighty, perfect faith, the reward and torture, as well as the commonalities and don'ts in Islam. [6]
If we all agree that in the society we all looked at the need to respect and honor women and mothers to make our role model, appreciate them and give priority to their participation. Men may want to volunteer to be a leader and protector for most women, all done in order to raise the dignity of women. With this attitude, of course, various forms of violence against women can be reduced, which makes women targeted crime will be reduced, acts of perversion sexual orientation can be avoided and the work of law enforcement officials will be lighter. Because raised awareness for men's role as a leader and a shield and protector of women, children, elderly, disabled and so on.
The role of the man who acted as a defender of the weak will be necessary for all human beings are no exception to the creatures of Allah more , Arising awareness in our society that men have been overshadowed women and help in various circumstances, with conditions like this certainly men no longer look at women's eye, it will make the conditions conducive to the whole society because they know they an equally important part of building this nation toward a better future course.
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